'I have your nudes and everything to ruin your life': The online predators preying on young people

Young person on mobile device
His parents characterized Evan Boettler as a clever, amusing adolescent with passions for fishing, athletic activities and hunting

This frightening note was obtained through online platforms by US teenager Evan Boettler, from someone he had previously believed to be a young girl - actually, it was a digital criminal.

Merely an hour and a half following the initial communication, the sixteen-year-old took his own life.

Online exploitation using private material is one of the fastest-growing online crimes. Those affected - commonly young people in Western nations are tricked into sending private images or recordings, which the criminals intimidate to share unless they are paid.

When they finally told us that night that he was gone, it didn't make any sense

Within the Missouri residence she occupies with Evan's dad Brad, she portrays their offspring as a bright, funny teenager who enjoyed fishing, participating in sports and hunting.

Grieving parents
Brad and Kari Boettler described their son Evan as "an amazing kid"

The Digital Trail

Almost two years following, the family's sorrow remains intense, and their pursuit of clarity faced difficulties. Digital services like Meta reject disclosing details lacking legal documentation.

Nevertheless, one vital clue existed - at one point the scammer demanded Evan's platform access information, and when they used this, they abandoned an internet protocol marker.

This online trail directed me to various sites within Nigeria, primarily its largest metropolitan area, Lagos, where I hoped to discover who was responsible.

The Online Scam System

Initial encounters directed me to the alleyways which are dwelling for multiple metropolitan scammers, identified as "Yahoo Boys" - designated following the email platform utilized for digital fraud during the initial 2000s.

These youthful males, typically in their twenties, live in impoverished areas but aspire to luxury vehicles and rapid wealth.

I don't feel bad because I need the money

This location introduced me to Ola. He laid out the mechanics of sextortion with a straightforward simplicity.

One creates a feminine profile employing fabricated identities from name generators, he said. It's a platform providing names of individuals from desired nations.

Structured Digital Criminal Operations

Ola operated independently, but additional instances demonstrate how digital blackmail in Lagos has developed into increasingly structured interconnected activities - syndicates operated with commanders, organizational structures and collective resources, established to amplify financial gain.

Online scam headquarters
We witnessed as the males in this Scam Operation executed their deceptions

The route finally directed me along the water channels of Makoko, one of the city's poorest districts, where wooden residences supported by poles rise on the edge of Lagos Lagoon.

I had learned about activities called "Hustle Kingdoms" – rooms with gangs of young men on phones running scams.

Mystical Aspects of Digital Fraud

These criminals advised me that multiple Yahoo boys were moving into what they called Enhanced Yahoo. This involved them visiting local priests to bless scams.

Spiritual ritual
We accompanied Ade as he visited a traditional healer

Spiritual practitioners have historically been integrated within Nigerian society, and for certain individuals, consulting them seemed as routine as purchasing a new mobile card.

Increasing Worldwide Concern

Across the United States, complaints regarding online exploitation to federal authorities have substantially risen in the past three years, attaining a peak of 55,000 during 2024.

Bereaved dad
Brandon Guffey's 17-year-old son took his own life after being targeted on Instagram

Social media companies say they are acting but their detractors contend they might interfere more forcefully.

Company Answers and Disapprovals

An official for Meta declared the proposition that it could remove online exploitation if it merely elected to was fundamentally incorrect.

They continuously show that they prefer ignorance regarding child endangerment

The grieving parents' scepticism is echoed inside Meta itself.

Resources and Support Options

  • Several associations supply discreet reporting mechanisms for individuals impacted by digital victimization
  • Professional support can produce cyber signatures to stop photograph distribution
  • Support services persist obtainable for those experiencing digital harassment

Simultaneously, for Evan's family, the obstacles to resolution persist overwhelming. As digital services are incapable of providing the details, all hopes of finding Evan's scammer relied on a Nigerian service provider.

It wasn't hard to parent him because he was such a good human

When I called the Boettlers they were gracious and thanked me for my efforts. Brad had previously described their son as "an amazing kid".

Amy Jones
Amy Jones

Lena ist eine erfahrene Journalistin mit Schwerpunkt auf Politik und Gesellschaft, die regelmäßig über deutsche und europäische Themen berichtet.